It’s a matter of obedience!
August 25, 2014
janetwlane
A Loving Parent, A Missionary Kid's Grandmother, Battling fear successfully, Extreme Grandparenting, Following Christ. What does it require?, Following God's Call, Letting Go, Obedience to go, Obedience to release, Parenting, Philippians 4:13, Philippines 4:6-7, The Enviable Life, The sufficiency of God's grace, Uncategorized, willing to release
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Me & my boy! It’s a mom thing!
I don’t know if you have noticed or not that while my blog never plays down the struggles of living so-o-o-o far apart from my child, I always make it clear that God’s love, grace, and mercy champions me in those struggles. Since releasing my son to the call of missions on his life, joy and peace have been my constant companions and have made what would have been an impossibility in my own strength a glorious possibility in His. (I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. Philippians 4:13)
I write this blog to encourage other parents who find themselves on a journey such as mine. I want to assure you that releasing your child to missions or whatever God has called them to is not something to fear. (Remember, the safest place on earth is in the center of God’s will!)
Recently, a grandmother of a brand-new missionary shared with me that she had expressed to her grandchild her heartfelt wish that she wasn’t going so far away. Her missionary grandchild responded with, “Granma, would you want me to disobey God so I could be near you?” That grandmother began to understand with greater clarity the priority of obedience.
My dear parent, releasing your child to do the work God has called them to is hard, I know! But the pain of releasing your child should not be your focus. Instead, the obedience to release your child should be. As you obediently release your child, God’s grace, peace, and mercy will wash over you as a soothing balm. Your heart will be comforted; joy and peace will be your constant companions as you make this journey. It’s a blessed life and you will be just as grateful as I am to be living it!
6 Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7 And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:6-7
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Oct 04, 2014 @ 14:49:07
Thank you for these words which communicated what I could not right now. This blog is a blessing to me. Our son just arrived in Uganda to serve for 3 years.
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Oct 06, 2014 @ 20:26:30
I know, I’ve been keeping up with him through Echelon. I am grateful for his commitment and the encouragement his presence gives my son and the rest of the team. Bless you …
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Oct 10, 2014 @ 14:20:52
I was just introduced to your Blog today by my son and daughter in law who serve our Lord in Botswana. I am so thrilled to find out about your Blog and it has already encouraged me more than you will ever know. The very first time my son told me that he and my daughter in law were going to quit their jobs and go to Bible School so they could be missionaries, I drove off the road and into someone’s yard!! I couldn’t believe what he was saying. Their daughter Cassie (my very first grandchild) was only a small baby and they would be taking her away from me???? No way, they must have lost their minds. At first I was not concerned about what God wanted to do but that they would be leaving me and I wouldn’t see them whenever I wanted. I was angry at God. They are mine and I don’t want this to happen was all that filled my heart. As the Bible says in many places “But God…” He spoke with me in tenderness and I was changed. I encouraged my son and decided to back them up in what they had decided. My son’s Father and I were divorced and he called me with the same questions I had for God. I told him that the Lord was leading them and I was 100% behind them. The day they left America I was sad and crying but not because I didn’t trust the Lord’s decision, but because He made me a woman and that’s what we do in times like that. My son and family went to Mali in West Africa first and after two years of serving there the Lord provided money for me to go and visit them. My very first time I ever left the US. It was a magnificent trip and to this day I still think of everything that happened on that trip and how the Lord used me while I was there (3 weeks). I have always wanted my children to be in the Lord’s will because I knew that was the best place for them but having to not be around my son and his family like I had been was very hard to accept but the power of the Holy Spirit gave me the desire to give my son and his family into God’s hands. I have prayed all through their lives to be in His hands and I am so very happy that they followed Him and not my tears!! My our Lord and Savior be praised for all He has done in our families!!! Oh yes, my son and his family are coming home in December for a short furlough and boy am I excited!!! Thanks again!! Linda
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Oct 10, 2014 @ 16:27:11
I am in tears as I read your comment. Tears because I could understand the emotions of everything you wrote, tears because your words confirmed for me the ministry God has given me in this blog, tears because you are experiencing the plans God has for you in calling your precious child and his family to serve Him. You are experiencing the victory God had in mind all along for you in His calling on you and your son. Continue sharing your testimony in this, it’s needed desperately. Janet
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Jan 19, 2015 @ 15:12:13
I don’t know how I have missed seeing your comment until this morning, but in reading it, my mission in writing this blog was confirmed again. My son suggested I write the blog and seriously, I don’t know what I would have done had I not had that blog to express my emotions during such a painful time. It was therapy at first, then eventually it became my mission. To know that I was helping other moms going through a similar experience gave purpose to my pain. I have a missionary mom friend that I would like to pass your comment along to. Your experiences are just alike in so many ways. She will be so encouraged by your words. God bless you for taking the time to post your comment to me. It has encouraged me and affirmed my blog ministry. Bless you,
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Oct 20, 2014 @ 00:20:45
I watched your son on the Echelon video site today. He is such an inspirational young man. I’ve been praying for him also. Adam is finally in Kaabong and settling in.
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Oct 20, 2014 @ 15:48:18
Thankful he is there safe and sound. Praying for him and you. Thank you for praying for my son!
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Jan 19, 2015 @ 15:13:38
I want you to know that along with you, I am very proud of Adam. Thankful that he is with our Echelon team. He is daily in my prayers.
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